As a Holistic sexual wellness specialist, I saw many clients struggling to figure out how to feel calm, relaxed while
trying to understand how and what is this letting go of control is all about...
I decided to add BDSM to my Sexual Wellness practice, giving stressed professionals a safe space
to learn how to give over their power to someone that they trusted. I helped them discover inner
peace, self acceptance, while feeling safe and empowered!!
Throughout a BDSM session you release bio chemicals like adrenaline, endorphins, dopamine , oxytocin and serotonin where, when
properly balanced, allows us to reprogram almost any unwanted thoughts, emotions and behaviours. My clients would discover their voice and how to set healthy and clear boundaries. Being made to ask for what they wanted, with clear ownership, allowed them to improve their communication skills in all other areas of their life.
I started to see huge shifts in their lives . They were calm in face of everyday stress triggers and not so tightly wired. In their work life they started to feel more confident; some got promotions, work performance increased, they became better leaders, mangers, and executives. Entrepreneurs had more focus, creativity and business success. The success of their inner personal relationships increased and improved because they where no longer in anger, or stressed and didn't need to control everyone and everything around them.
When you can learn how to feel safe and trust to surrender to someone, it makes you stronger, more powerful and a better balanced person. Now when you need to be in charge and take the leadership role, you can do it with calmness, stillness and silent confidence...
Confidence that is born out of knowledge, skills and compassion because you are not afraid or out of control inside!!